Kink Tales: The Twisted Relationship With My Crown
“Who taught you to hate the texture of your hair? Who taught you to hate the color of your skin? To such extent you bleach, to get like...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jul 5
- 2 min
It’s Ok For Your Relationship & Life to be Different
Originally published January 30th, 2022 I’ve avoided writing about anything of substance, one because we’re going into season three of...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jul 5
- 3 min
The Deeper Side of Choice
Originally published in 2012. When the word choice comes up in regards to women the conversation often starts and stops with abortion....
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Rayven Holmes
- Jun 28
- 5 min
Do You Remember...
Content warning - sexual assault. Memory is a funny thing. Some days it works as you intend it to, recalling the details of your life...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jun 27
- 5 min
Cycles of Life: 20 Years of Rambling on the Internet
As the earth spins so do the cycles of our lives. I’ve found as I near the 20-year mark the life-changing decisions that were made in my...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jun 21
- 6 min
Life: The Intersection of Passion and Purpose
Originally published May 18th, 2023. A conversation that keeps playing out in my life is one that centers around passion and purpose. ...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jun 21
- 6 min
Are We Living for Liberation or For Liberal Likes?
Originally published April 9th, 2023. There is no solidarity with liberals. This a bold statement with nearly twenty years of experience...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jun 21
- 4 min
An Obituary For the Living: A Letter to My Mother and All the Black Women & Girls Society Forgot
Originally published March 24th, 2023. Dear Mother, I’ve started this letter a thousand times and still, the words escape me. I saw a...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jun 21
- 8 min
Seasons of Life
Originally published March 12th, 2023. With age, certain things become easier to see, like the way our lives move in seasons. Those...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jun 21
- 1 min
Healing Ain't Pretty
Originally published March 10th, 2023. Healing ain’t pretty. It forces us to take an honest look at where we’ve been and where we wish to...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jun 21
- 4 min
Gray Matter Revisited
Originally published February 22nd, 2023. Five years ago I sat in a hospital room gazing upon the body that brought me into this world as...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jun 21
- 4 min
In Defense of Valentine's Day
Originally published February 14th, 2023. Hallmark commercials, overpriced red roses, and blood diamonds for days. Our ideas of...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jun 21
- 6 min
Religious Discernment: Reflections from a Black Woman Moving Through UU Spaces
This essay was written in 2022 for the Renaissance Credentialing Program, a training program provided by the Unitarian Universalist...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jun 21
- 6 min
Gold From Pain
Originally published January 26th, 2023. In addition to this being a year of no for me, it’s also a year for examining my proximity to...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jun 21
- 4 min
Exclusive Feminism: Leaning In and On White Privilege
This piece was originally written in December 2015 and never published on my blog. Since penning this in 2015, I’ve spent time exploring...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jun 21
- 4 min
The Myth of Perfect
​This article was originally published on Ramblings of a Dysfunctional Homeschooler in 2015. Previous pieces from that blog will be...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jun 21
- 3 min
The Year of No
Originally published January 10th, 2023. Hello old friend, did you miss me? I can’t say with certainty that I missed you - elements of...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jun 21
- 3 min
Juneteenth and You: How to Navigate the Holiday When You're Not Black
Originally published June 19th, 2020. I get questions from time to time about all sorts of things. How to manage single parenting and...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jun 21
- 4 min
Free To Be You and Me
Originally published June 11th, 2019. Once upon a time there was a prom and a personal determination to look phenomenal while being...
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Rayven Holmes
- Jun 21
- 3 min
Oops I Did It Again
Originally published May 1st, 2019 Second weddings are strange. From debating on if you can wear white, obviously, the virginal jig is...
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